First, keep in mind you are not the only person who gets butterflies when it’s time to step up on the podium. Everyone goes through pretty much the same thing. Some people just hide it better.
Second, the biggest key is preparation. The better you’re prepared, the easier it is. If you plan to wing it, don’t expect much. Don’t underestimate the need to take short presentations seriously. Most speakers find that if they’re going to get anxious, it’ll be during the first minute or two they speak. Therefore, if you have just a two or three minute presentation, you may be nervous through the whole thing. By the time you work through it, it’s over. So actually, you need to prepare more, not less, for those shorter presentations.
Third, do what you do best. Some people can wing it. If you’re good at that, more power to you. But most of us need to work from notes, and others are best off working from a complete script. If that’s what you need, do it. All the books will tell you to use an outline and speak naturally and never look down. That’s great advice for someone who’s a professional speaker, or someone aspiring to be one, but you’re just trying to do a good job. Most of you aren’t professional or seasoned speakers so don’t get caught up trying to be something you’re not. If you have to use a script and read it, do it. Practice your presentation by reading it aloud several times beforehand. Once you’re familiar with the wording, your speech will sound more natural.
There are some tricks to using a script. Write it the way you talk, not the way you write. If you want to sound natural put your contractions right in your script. If you’d drop a letter off the end of a word when you normally say it, write it that way. If you don’t want to sound like you’re reading, don’t write it so that it sounds like you’re reading.
Type your presentations in big, bold type so that it can be read easily and double-space them. Don’t type too near the bottom of the page; use only about two-thirds of each page. Fold the corners of each page in advance so that you’re not fighting with the paper each time you move on or worse, you might even skip a whole page by shuffling two at a time.
Whenever you can, use visual aids and handouts. Not only do they help your audience, but they also help you. If gives you a break now and then – some time to get your breath, to think for a few seconds, to regroup. Good overheads don’t just help your listeners, they act as your outline – and help keep you on track.
Anticipate your audience. Ask in advance about the size and the makeup of the group. There’s nothing worse than going to a meeting prepared to speak to administrative professionals and finding out that half the group is executives.
Be brief. The less time you’re at the lectern the less exposure you have. The wordier you get the bigger chance for problems. Being longer doesn’t make you sound better. As the old adage says – “Be brief, be concise, be quiet.” Another one is: “Stand up, stand out, sit down." Say what you need to say, but the fewer words, the better.
Finally, be yourself, be friendly, be fun. If you’re naturally funny, then use it. If you’re not, don’t try to be. Be yourself. Keep in mind that everyone in the audience is there to hear what you have to say. They all want you to succeed. And remember, if they could do a better job…they’d be up there!
Podium Protocol
Now, here are a few things that will help you be more comfortable, and look better, when you’re at the podium doing your thing as a speaker.
The first thing you have to do is take charge. When you come into a room and you’re one of the speakers, don’t take anybody’s word for anything. Don’t be bashful, in fact, you need to be aggressive. If you’re not, someday you’ll pay for it.
If someone tells you they just checked the microphone and sound system, check it yourself anyway. Yes, it may have worked an hour ago, but check it again to make sure.
Always arrive early and check the equipment. Know where the switch is on the microphone. Be sure that you can move it where it needs to be for you. Know who’s ahead of you. Are they shorter or taller than you? Will you have to make major adjustments when you’re introduced?
Make sure there’s enough light for you to see, and be sure your papers don’t slide off the lectern. If you’re in charge of the meeting, be sure you know who the audiovisual person at the facility is, and where they’ll be if you need them in a hurry. Never trust AV equipment!
Never put your notes up on the lectern in advance. People will even tell you to leave them there. Obviously have never had their notes disappear! There’s nothing wrong with carrying your notes to the lectern.
The most important thing to remember is never, ever, desert the podium. Nothing looks worse, and nothing is more rude to your audience and you see it done all the time. When you’re done speaking, wait for the chair to come back to the podium and thank you. Stand there until someone comes and shakes your hand no matter how long it takes. “Never leave until you’re relieved!”
Podium Protocol for You as the Chairperson
As the chair or moderator of a meeting, the same thing goes about deserting the podium. If you’re the chair, don’t leave until you’ve introduced the next speaker, waited for them to get to the podium, and you’ve shaken their hand.
If you’re making a presentation, anticipate. Give the item to be presented with your left hand so you can shake with your right. If you’re on the receiving end, accept it with you left so your right hand’s free.
Dealing with waiters after a meal is always an issue. When you can, you want to let them do their job, and you have to sometimes compromise to keep your meeting on schedule. But there’s a point where they can be obtrusive, and if so, you need to let them know it.
If the doors in the back are open, close them, especially if there’s noise outside. (This is also a good way to let your waiters know that you’re starting your program. If you ask them to shut the doors, then they’ll know you’re getting down to business and it’s time to be quiet.) Don’t forget-you’re in charge!
As a chair, you have a responsibility to keep the meeting on schedule. If you have a speaker scheduled for 30 minutes and they decide to talk for an hour, what should you do? First, use your judgment. Is there time in the schedule, which allows for you to be flexible? Is the audience really “into” what the speaker’s saying? If so, you may want to be lenient. There’s nothing worse than trying to stay on schedule just to be on schedule. But, when it’s going to affect your later speakers, or make your audience run late to another session, it’s your responsibility to cut the person off. Remember that you’re not being rude – they’re being rude to your entire audience.
It’s always a good idea to have a couple of cards handy to hold up that say “five minutes left,” “one minute left,” and finally, one that says “times up.” If you don’t have cards, pass them a note. If worse comes to worse, you may have to stand up and move around behind them. Eventually they’ll get the hint. The purpose of a schedule is to have an effective meeting.
Consider your stage and your head table. Is it all really necessary, or is it all there because that’s the way they’ve always done it? Fewer and fewer organizations still use the formal head table set up for meetings. Break some new ground. Are those big tables and stages really necessary? Remember, you’re in charge, if it’s ever going to change, someone has to be the first to do it.
Another sticky issue that some of you will have to deal with is someone in the audience who is trying to dominate the course of the meeting. The first thing to do in this situation is to consider if the question they are asking is one that concerns more people than the one standing up. If so, maybe it deserves the group’s time. If not, then you need to tell the person that you feel this is an individual issue, and you’ll be glad to talk to them about it in private, but this forum is for questions that concern the entire group. You should also ask yourself if there is someone else to refer them to. Can you ask them to direct the question to a committee chairman, or to headquarters? You can also offer to find the answer and get back to them. You don’t have to know all the answers. Perhaps someone else in the group knows.
Don’t ever let a person get up and make a statement that you know is incorrect without challenging it. There’s nothing worse than the entire group going away from a meeting thinking that what they just heard someone say was true, when in fact it was all wrong.
If you know in advance that you’re going to have problems with a Q&A session, consider using cards so that you can control the damage. Pass out cards in advance or ask people to write their questions on a piece of scratch paper and put them in a special spot during the course of the meeting. Then you can filter out questions that are just individual issues, or may be intentionally disruptive. This also allows you to have the right person in mind to answer the question, or to think the answer through in advance.
But whatever you do, or how you choose to do it, remember one thing, you are in charge. That doesn’t mean you have to be bossy, but it means you have to be the boss. And it’s true in everything from setting the agenda to moving the furniture around, if you have to.